We are told what to think and feel by so many others in our lives: Our teachers, our parents, our friends and family. It is easy to get caught up in that and end up living from other people’s ideals. Option B focuses on what you want and making that a reality. To do this, we must first identify what ideas are your own and what ideas came from others. Which beliefs truly resonate with you and which ones don’t. We need to UNLEARN what we have learnt from others, if these messages do not resonate with or serve who we truly are. Doing this will help you work out what you truly want. What your life purpose is. Once you know what you want, you can figure out how to serve other people while doing what you want. As Neale Donald Walsh says: “The best and quickest way to achieve all of our goals and to live the life which we have dreamed is to assist others in achieving their goals and living the life of which they have dreamed. In doing this we will have found the key to lasting happiness.”
The trick is to stay focused on what you truly want. However, there are many things out there to distract us like the media, the negative news, negativity from people, the need for money. If we let these things keep us in fear we will never stand up for ourselves, and will just be slaves to the banks, big businesses etc. We need to wake up and start thinking for ourselves, and ask questions. Don’t just automatically trust and believe the banks, media, doctor etc. Figure out what is right for you. Follow your own intuition. Even though it is easier to follow others and not think for ourselves, which is why most people do it. What we don’t know is what they have been keeping from us. Doctors and health authorities keep giving us lies as to what we should be eating (they ignore the fact that the amount of animal products you eat is directly proportional to your chances of getting cancer and heart disease), the banks sell us interest on paper they print from nothing. We need to remember to ask questions, and not take anything for granted.
Once we have unlearnt what does not resonate with us, we have to learn what does. Now it is time to have some fun. Start researching and experimenting. Go on the web, read lots of books, talk with people, but don’t take anything for granted. Take what resonates with you and leave what doesn’t. If you want to find a new healthier eating plan, or make money through investing, do your research and try a few different strategies. Stay open minded and figure out what works for you. Don’t be afraid to change your mind. You can do anything you want! There is no right or wrong. Only what fits with you as an individual and what doesn’t. If you have not achieved what you want at this moment, you need to be open to doing things in a different way to achieve what you want. This can be scary, but also very exciting.